I think we've finally decided to have a DFTW! Im SO excited! We are thinking May 2014, wishes wedding. Other than that, no real definite ideas! It's a little overwhelming starting to plan! Has anyone had their reception at the napa or sonoma room at at the CG? Is there anywhere i can find more detailed pics of the rooms? Can we customize the menu, or is it a set menu? Is is possible to have just a one tier wedding cake, and then have cupcakes instead ? What is the norm for going to speak/see the DFTW people to see our site options, how far is advance should we do this (takes some planning, we are from NY). Any idea on how much a dessert party costs (EP) for say 30-40 people. How about transportation for our guests via the private charter bus, and how many resorts will they pick up at, and at what cost?! What is the discount % for rooms for our guests (obviously depending on which resort they stay at). So confused! Sorry for the rambling!