I know you probably don't want to hear this, because it is a hard decision to make, but really, only you and your family can decide what works best for you. So read all of the pros and cons that work for everyone else, but then you need to make a choice based on your family and touring style. Personally, we don't do afternoon breaks because my kids are very easy going, don't melt down, and will fall asleep on a ride if need be. We tried to leave once and the kids fell asleep on the ride back to the hotel and then were ready to go again! I do, however, know many kids (and adults!) that need a break.
We try to do one short day (like AK which closes earlier or doing a half day of a park that we go to more than once) followed by a really long day (stay for the night time show). Then, we have a rest day of pool, maybe DTD, etc. This works for us because we take longer trips (usually 12-14 nights). This really wouldn't work for a shorter trip though.
Also, because we go for longer, we don't feel the need to pay for hoppers. We get a 10 day pass and do one park a day. Plenty of time to see what we want without hopping. However, if we were going on a shorter trip, I might consider hopping. I believe adding hopping for our family is roughly $250. I'd rather stay an extra night or two with that money. I know that some people can't imagine going without hopping because they love the freedom to switch parks. It really is a personal choice.
Good luck with your decision! Keep in mind that you can always add hopping to your tickets once you are down there if you feel you need it.
We try to do one short day (like AK which closes earlier or doing a half day of a park that we go to more than once) followed by a really long day (stay for the night time show). Then, we have a rest day of pool, maybe DTD, etc. This works for us because we take longer trips (usually 12-14 nights). This really wouldn't work for a shorter trip though.
Also, because we go for longer, we don't feel the need to pay for hoppers. We get a 10 day pass and do one park a day. Plenty of time to see what we want without hopping. However, if we were going on a shorter trip, I might consider hopping. I believe adding hopping for our family is roughly $250. I'd rather stay an extra night or two with that money. I know that some people can't imagine going without hopping because they love the freedom to switch parks. It really is a personal choice.
Good luck with your decision! Keep in mind that you can always add hopping to your tickets once you are down there if you feel you need it.