surfergirl602
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she claims it runs in her family.
Huh?? It's not like tardiness is a genetic defect.
she claims it runs in her family.
Huh?? It's not like tardiness is a genetic defect.
Huh?? It's not like tardiness is a genetic defect.
Ditto. I've done this a time or two myself.Its selfish, rude and self centered. I had a friend that was late all the time, to me it was reason enough to end the friendship, I couldn't put up with that rude selfish behavior, no one likethat is worth being friends with IMO. If they care only about themselves then its not someone I care to be around.
This is my way of handling it, too. If someone gets mad at me, I tell them that I'm not going to be penalized because they can't budget their time correctly. The event starts at XX:XX and it takes X many minutes to get there. Their lack of planning does not constitute my emergency and I'm not going to miss an event that I've prepared for and they have not.You can be late all you want as long as you don't expect others to be inconvenienced. I will leave someone who doesn't show up on time. Their problem, not mine.
That sounds like bad planning on your part. It's wise to be ready for the starting time of an event you're hosting at least a 1/2 hour before-hand, if not more. If you're worried about your clothing being stained by food, consider investing in a full-length chef's apron. I have several and they're not that expensive.I had a dinner party the other night that started at 6pm. We had a couple that got there at 5:30. I was just finishing getting the table set and I had planned on using that final half hour to freshen my makeup and change into my good clothes and DH was showering. Now I needed to entertain a full half hour before planned.
I was actually in the car and on my way when I saw them pass me going to my house.. I just kept thinking oh they'll be here as soon as I leave. I was right I should have left an hour earlier
That sounds like bad planning on your part. It's wise to be ready for the starting time of an event you're hosting at least a 1/2 hour before-hand, if not more. If you're worried about your clothing being stained by food, consider investing in a full-length chef's apron. I have several and they're not that expensive.
To be showering and dressing 30 minutes or less before the event is to start? Bad time management IMO. There will ALWAYS be a few people who live by the mantra of 10 minutes early means on time, on time means you're late.
We will have to agree to disagree then.Sorry, we will have to disagree. Not a time management problem at all on my part. It is plain rude to show up at somebody's house before you are invited.
If an invitation says 7, it means 7 - not 6:45 or even worse, 6:30.
People who think 10 minutes early is on time is just as rude, and in my opinion, ruder as you are getting somewhere before being invited, as people who think 10 minutes late is on time.
Telling a hostess that she should be ready a full half hour before the invite is absolutely no different than telling a hostess that they should hold everything for a full half hour after the invite.
Basically what you are saying is that if it is perfectly acceptable for a guest to be early to an invite, it should be perfectly acceptable for a guest to be the same amount of time late to an event. No difference in my mind - both are rude. Except I feel being early is ruder.
I would have kept driving!
I know I'm not on time all the time, but with a casual meetup, a basic understanding is about 10-15 minutes within the expected arrival time. Most of the times I'm there on the dot.
My father used to be late picking me up from elementary school all the way up until I could drive. School would let out at 2:45, and I don't recall being picked up before 3:30.