The "someone very close to me" is a family member. This person has very high blood pressure, a fib, cannot walk due to bad knee and as others have mentioned in this post the tremendous leg swelling. Lots of other stuff too. I am never judgmental to this persons face I am always supportive. But when they tell me everyday about the great deal they got at such and such restaurant and what they ate (fried appetizers etc), I am always so sad when they leave and shaking my head. I guess its possible that the person is not being forthcoming with me in regard to what the doctors say, but I know I specifically asked if the doctors ever mentioned watching sodium intake and they said no. I understand that a person has to want to lose weight and make lifestyle changes, but when you eat in a restaurant, no matter how healthy you think it sounds...you usually dont know what you are getting. This is a person that should absolutely be on the DASH diet or something similar.