alc571
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- Sep 9, 2012
I know this topic has been widely discussed on these boards - mostly because I started another one of these threads about a year ago - but I need to VENT to people who will understand
We initially took our son to WDW, staying offsite with inlaws, when he was 3. We did MK twice, but he didn't remember much of it. So, we decided to take him again last year (Oct 2012) just after his 7th birthday. We got him the birthday pin, and did MNSSHP, and stayed onsite at POR. We loved it.
So much so, that I decided I would set aside as much money as possible every month to be able to take him on a yearly trip. So, we started saving and saving. We planned on surprising him for his birthday again, and take him in September with free dining. Well... DH announced that he wasn't keen on taking him at the beginning of the school year because he struggles with change, making friends, and is behind in his reading/writing. (aside: he had the same teacher this year as last, so those concerns weren't there for the Oct '12 trip). So, we decided to bump it up and take him in April. We surprised him for Easter, and left two weeks later. It was an awesome time that I'm still paying for!
Anyway, we have a tent trailer that wasn't getting much use because of the trips to Disney and making them a priority. We decided, as a family, to sell the trailer and use the money for "other vacations". Well, then DH came up with the brilliant idea that we could use the money to go to Disneyland! I was thinking we would go next year, but DH and DS vetoed me and wanted to go this summer. SO... we are now booked for DL this August for a week. I'm really excited because it's DH's and my 15th wedding anniversary at the end of July and we went to DL for our honeymoon. We're also excited to see DCA, and take DS to Universal/Seaworld.
That's the background... my vent comes from this beach-loving-Disney-hating-generally-grumpy woman who sits beside me at work. I was just casually talking about how our son was wanting to see a globe and where California is, etc. She then takes off on this rant about "how can you afford this?" "what a waste of money" "your son is a very spoiled little boy" "are you saving for his education?" WTH???
First, this is her business why?? Second, can I not spend my money how I want to? Yes.. taking three trips in 12 months is a bit much. However, we have taken a total of 4 trips (including the upcoming DL one) since 2004! My son doesn't play sports (other than the church soccer fun league) and doesn't really have any expensive tastes (unless you count Lego! ) so it's not like we're spending money on hockey, etc.
I'm just so upset. How do you respond to these negative nellies?
Thanks for letting me vent. I know you'll all understand!
We initially took our son to WDW, staying offsite with inlaws, when he was 3. We did MK twice, but he didn't remember much of it. So, we decided to take him again last year (Oct 2012) just after his 7th birthday. We got him the birthday pin, and did MNSSHP, and stayed onsite at POR. We loved it.
So much so, that I decided I would set aside as much money as possible every month to be able to take him on a yearly trip. So, we started saving and saving. We planned on surprising him for his birthday again, and take him in September with free dining. Well... DH announced that he wasn't keen on taking him at the beginning of the school year because he struggles with change, making friends, and is behind in his reading/writing. (aside: he had the same teacher this year as last, so those concerns weren't there for the Oct '12 trip). So, we decided to bump it up and take him in April. We surprised him for Easter, and left two weeks later. It was an awesome time that I'm still paying for!
Anyway, we have a tent trailer that wasn't getting much use because of the trips to Disney and making them a priority. We decided, as a family, to sell the trailer and use the money for "other vacations". Well, then DH came up with the brilliant idea that we could use the money to go to Disneyland! I was thinking we would go next year, but DH and DS vetoed me and wanted to go this summer. SO... we are now booked for DL this August for a week. I'm really excited because it's DH's and my 15th wedding anniversary at the end of July and we went to DL for our honeymoon. We're also excited to see DCA, and take DS to Universal/Seaworld.
That's the background... my vent comes from this beach-loving-Disney-hating-generally-grumpy woman who sits beside me at work. I was just casually talking about how our son was wanting to see a globe and where California is, etc. She then takes off on this rant about "how can you afford this?" "what a waste of money" "your son is a very spoiled little boy" "are you saving for his education?" WTH???
First, this is her business why?? Second, can I not spend my money how I want to? Yes.. taking three trips in 12 months is a bit much. However, we have taken a total of 4 trips (including the upcoming DL one) since 2004! My son doesn't play sports (other than the church soccer fun league) and doesn't really have any expensive tastes (unless you count Lego! ) so it's not like we're spending money on hockey, etc.
I'm just so upset. How do you respond to these negative nellies?
Thanks for letting me vent. I know you'll all understand!