Please do not be put off at all from driving to NYC. It really depends on what you are comfortable with. I have driven at least 5 times to NYC from Toronto with daughter. Things to consider in making the decision:
1. how many people are going- if only 2, flying may not be much more. For example to drive from toronto, cost is about $350 (including prkg) for 6 nights - not including a hotel outside of NYC for the first night- where we do outlet shopping. Flight from Buffalo- about $200 unless there is a deal, plus parking there ($50 for a week), plus transfers in NYC- est about $100 for 2. Difference is a bout $200, which to us is alost another night stay in NYC
Summary (this is of course from TO, about an 8.0 drive not including any gas or other stops, assume 9 hrs)
Drive: $350
Fly: $350
Time:
Drive: 9 hrs
Fly: 6 hrs
Drive- more flexible and we use car for outlets
2. car gives you flexibility- leave at the time you want, come home when you are ready that day.
easier to bring back lots more stuff
3. are you able to handle very busy multiple lane highways. I do not find driving in NYC itself hard (used to TO driving, which though not as busy), but the highways coming into the city are pretty intense depending on time of day
What we do is leave around 6am. Often a Friday or Saturday. Drive about 7 1/2 hrs to outlet mall (Woodbury Common) which is about 1 hr north of NYC. Shop (we get there by 2pm), stay there overnight, drive into city around 9:30 or so next morning. Takes about 1 hr. Check in, leave luggage, park car.
I always find my parking at
www.iconparking.com, find a cheap lot not too far from hotel (but if really cheap will take a short taxi, or subway back to hotel) cheap parking means under $30/night. I don't think I have paid more than $35/night and I usually pay about $27-$30/night with tax
You need to really compare all costs and benefits in making the decision. ie gas, parking, lose of a day driving, cost of parking at airport, taxi, bus etc into the city, time at airport etc
For us flying really is 6 hrs door to door (1.5 hr flt, 3 hrs at airport, 1.5 hrs to/from airport at each end total.) Plus we live to outlet shop.
Hotel:
Check places like travelzoo, quikbook, expedia
often sales
I think they had the Millenium Broadway on for about $169
Hampton Inn site has deals there too for CAA (about $179/night at
Hampton InnTS North)- this was for early July
This time (July) we are staying at the Courtyard by Marrioot in Jersey city where prking is $12/night for $160/night, which is right at a PATh stn (10 mins to the city, it is a subway but NJ subway, connects to NYC subway). If you do go back to your hotel during the day or do a lot of niightlife, Jersey City not such a good idea
Debbie