mrsmiller
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2004
Hi
We recently came from our vacation to Disney and while I was there I really started to think of having another child... A little background...
I am 41 yrs old and I have a condition called Pseudo Tumor Celebri (high pressure in the brain due to extra fluids) I have this for 17 yrs because I got worse I needed surgery to have shunts placed to help relieved the pressure in the brain, when I got pregnant with my 2nd child I spent the pregnancy in the hospital because my condition got worse( at that time I did not have the shunts) so while giving birth to my second boy (c-section) the doctor decided to tie my tubes because he thought he was saving me (that is what he told me when I woke up from the anesthesia) now I never spoke to him about having my tubes tied nor did I sign any paper to authorize this, I was upset but I understood him, to make this long story short I been thinking of undergoing in vitro; because this is elective is not covered by my husband's insurance which means that we will be spending a lot of money to have a child (with no warranties that we will have one) we will be using our savings and this means that for few years our vacations and extras will have to stop(No more Disney )also because of my age I have to decide this fast(I know that age is working against me )
I want to give this a try but would like to know if any of you tried in vitro after a tubal ligation and how long will it take as I only give myself a year for trying also is there a website that relates to women in situation like mine that I can go to for information and statistics so I can have a better idea and help me decide if I should even do this.
thank you all for listening
Linnette
We recently came from our vacation to Disney and while I was there I really started to think of having another child... A little background...
I am 41 yrs old and I have a condition called Pseudo Tumor Celebri (high pressure in the brain due to extra fluids) I have this for 17 yrs because I got worse I needed surgery to have shunts placed to help relieved the pressure in the brain, when I got pregnant with my 2nd child I spent the pregnancy in the hospital because my condition got worse( at that time I did not have the shunts) so while giving birth to my second boy (c-section) the doctor decided to tie my tubes because he thought he was saving me (that is what he told me when I woke up from the anesthesia) now I never spoke to him about having my tubes tied nor did I sign any paper to authorize this, I was upset but I understood him, to make this long story short I been thinking of undergoing in vitro; because this is elective is not covered by my husband's insurance which means that we will be spending a lot of money to have a child (with no warranties that we will have one) we will be using our savings and this means that for few years our vacations and extras will have to stop(No more Disney )also because of my age I have to decide this fast(I know that age is working against me )
I want to give this a try but would like to know if any of you tried in vitro after a tubal ligation and how long will it take as I only give myself a year for trying also is there a website that relates to women in situation like mine that I can go to for information and statistics so I can have a better idea and help me decide if I should even do this.
thank you all for listening
Linnette