Slightly OT here, but I wish I had the option of holding my son back!
My DS4 is the special education program at the public elementary school with an IEP. He enrolled in the program last year with speech delay and sensory issues (borderline austism). When I say speech delay, I mean he didn't call me Mama until he was 3.5. He now has a vocabulary in the 100s of words but still needs diction work. He is in a class of 5 students (all boys) with 1 teacher, 1 teacher assistant, a student teacher with additional therapies in speech, OT and PT on a weekly basis.
Because of state law he MUST go to kindergarden as soon as he turns five - which is July. So he will move into a class with up to 20 kids with 1 teacher and possible a student teacher. Because of his IEP he will get extra one on one help as needed and stay in OT,PT & speech but I am scared to death. He is very regimented and follows his own set of rituals and is socially immature. I fully anticipate him repeated kindergarten and would have liked the opportunity to keep in preschool for one more year. My son does know how to count to 10, can id shapes & letters, but I really don't see him read to read or do computation by next year. His current diction and small motor skill delay will make him hard to understand in oral and written communication and that is where the focus needs to be.
Of course, I can enroll him in private preschool, but I would loose the OT, PT and speech programs (have to private pay through insurance I guess $$$$) and pray that the preschool program can adapt to his particular needs.
My other option, the least enticing of the three is to send him to a special needs class of K-2 where the hard core cases are. I want him mainstreamed to help with his verbal and social skills - just not in such a large and structured environment, not to mention fast paced.
Good luck with your choice and be glad you have them.
My DS4 is the special education program at the public elementary school with an IEP. He enrolled in the program last year with speech delay and sensory issues (borderline austism). When I say speech delay, I mean he didn't call me Mama until he was 3.5. He now has a vocabulary in the 100s of words but still needs diction work. He is in a class of 5 students (all boys) with 1 teacher, 1 teacher assistant, a student teacher with additional therapies in speech, OT and PT on a weekly basis.
Because of state law he MUST go to kindergarden as soon as he turns five - which is July. So he will move into a class with up to 20 kids with 1 teacher and possible a student teacher. Because of his IEP he will get extra one on one help as needed and stay in OT,PT & speech but I am scared to death. He is very regimented and follows his own set of rituals and is socially immature. I fully anticipate him repeated kindergarten and would have liked the opportunity to keep in preschool for one more year. My son does know how to count to 10, can id shapes & letters, but I really don't see him read to read or do computation by next year. His current diction and small motor skill delay will make him hard to understand in oral and written communication and that is where the focus needs to be.
Of course, I can enroll him in private preschool, but I would loose the OT, PT and speech programs (have to private pay through insurance I guess $$$$) and pray that the preschool program can adapt to his particular needs.
My other option, the least enticing of the three is to send him to a special needs class of K-2 where the hard core cases are. I want him mainstreamed to help with his verbal and social skills - just not in such a large and structured environment, not to mention fast paced.
Good luck with your choice and be glad you have them.