emmababy
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Oct 25, 2006
I have 3. I knew I wanted 2 for sure. I wasn't sure about 3. I thought about it a lot. I am 1 of 2 and always wondered what it would be like as an adult to have another sibling with a family. Anyway, when I was thinking about it, I heard another Mom say if you are 75% sure that is sure enough, because you will never be 100% sure. I can't imagine my life without my son. It is true, rides at theme parks etc are a problem, but I wouldn't base a life decision on that. We are cruising in March and we got 2 inside cabins instead of a larger (more expensive actually) cabin. As they get older, things do get more expensive i.e. clothes, hockey, interests. I love my Honda Odyssey....wouldn't change it for the world. We also have a Chevy Avalanche. This pulls our 30ft travel trailer bunkhouse which we vacation mostly in (including the golden retriever and cat...why not we have the room!). I think you need to listen to that internal voice. Once I had 3 I knew I didn't want anymore. That was me. We had a 3 bedroom house when my third was born. Actually had my 5 yr old girl and 3 yr old boy share for awhile when the baby came. Then moved the boys together almost 2 yrs later. We now have a 4 bedroom house so everyone has there own space.
Thanks for your insight! I def don't want to base a life decision on the inconveniences of it. I look forward to when I am a Grandma, and would love to have a household of noise and grandbabies!!! I don't have that definite feeling of "I'm done" that I thought I would have. I never once imagined myself having 3 kids, until I had my son!! Now, I know we have more love to give.