Please tell me that in the day of overscheduled families that my DD6 is not the only one who won't participate in anything! She is the youngest of 3 and won't leave her comfort zone. She wouldn't do dance, zookids, gymnastics, etc. We finally convinced her to do soccer and now she won't go to the practices or play in the games without literally screaming and crying without letting up. Do I force her? We've tried easing her into it, being patient to no avail. My DH travels most weeks so I am basically a single parent. I know this has contributed greatly to her attachment and insecurites but we have no family, etc. by us, it leaves us no choice. She does great in school and loves Daisy GS, because she is with her friends from school. So, do I let her off the hook with soccer? Force her and bring a lot of tears? With my older two kids' schedules (who are involved in EVERYTHING) it is hard for me to stick with her soccer schedule only for her to stand by me and cry the whole time. Any constructive (and kind?) advice?