bumbershoot
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... but I let my DS 6 watch it with us, fast forwarding through the "bad" parts. I feel my DS knows the difference between right and wrong and should not be murdering Padueens anytime soon.
I think the OP said that the sister put it on and left the room. That the parents came in the room as Anakin is murdering the padawans and didn't turn it off.
So, they didn't watch it with him, and certainly didn't FF through the bad parts.
Our son has seen all 3 POTC movies, but when there are moments that are too too too much (like the hangings in the start of the 3rd movie and the nasty nasty second big scene in the 2nd movie with the prison and the crows), DS turns his back and looks at us while we FF it. We're liberal AND protective at the same time. But I would never let DS just watch those scenes without one of us being in the room with him.
My relationship with my dad is weird, and all my sisters and I have the same feelings -- he is not a nice person at all, but he worked extremely hard to give us the best that he could. He doesn't show love very well and is extremely critical, but the only one who was ever the brunt of his temper was my mom. He is of the mindset that men do not deal with children, and still feels that way. So he has very little interaction with my kids, except for meal-time. Plus, in the past five-years, he was doing so much better. I thought he was mellowing out in his old age, and maybe he is, and was just in a bad mood that week. Honestly, he's probably much better than I make him sound out to be, but I have 33 years of baggage!!
Honestly, i'm not really sure how DS got so into Star Wars - DH is like, "Of course he is, why wouldn't he be??". I know many of his friends talk about it, and they play light sabres, and one friend has the lego starwars video game.
No worries; you may have figured out by the dad/Walkabout part of my post that I totally get weirdo fathers. I'm still in his life; he paid for hubby and my wedding, but I don't trust him with my kiddo right now! The dude, while living in Family Student Housing while getting his degree at UC Santa Cruz, told the kids in the neighborhood that he was cooking elephant foot for Thanksgiving. Was so convincing that even though he OFFERED to show the kids what was in the oven (plain old turkey...my last ever turkey before I went veggie), they didn't take him up on the offer. I still wonder how many adults out there are secretly damaged by the strange things my dad told them as kids while their parents were getting their degrees at UCSC...
Kids love Star Wars. I was 8, I suppose, when it came out, so brother was 5 or 6, and it was fabulous. We loved it, and sometimes when watching my son watch it I get small memories of why I loved it so much.
But I certainly wasn't watching Phantom Menace or the other 2 (I've forgotten the second and haven't seen the 3rd)!
Sorry- but kids can see more violence than the Star Wars movie by walking through the living room when the news is on. Do you block the news too?
Well, my mom did. I was born in 1969 and my brother in 1972, and call her crazy, but my mom didn't think that vivid, even if black and white, images of war were appropriate for little kiddoes. Since we're in a war right now, the news is off limits in our household, and has been for, oh, 7 years. (yes, before DS arrived)
Seeing a movie with small children being killed isn't what we are comfy with, even though the Kraken from POTC2 is OK with us, and various other scenes in the first 3 SW movies plus PMenace. There are some other "trigger" scenes for me, according to hubby, but he's saying that he won't be comfy (and please note he's nearly a Star Wars freak) with DS watching the 3rd movie until he's 17!!