Saffron
Palm Tree Hugger
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2001
OP ... I didn't find anything in your post offensive at all!
I totally agree with MushyMushy, RitaZ and JunieJay.
A woman expects to find other women in the lady's room, not a man. And it would not be in the best interest of any woman to find out why a man is in the lady's room. It is in the best interest of the place of business to find out why, if there is a concern (not necessary a complaint!), of a man is in the lady's room. Not all men in the lady's room have a need to be there.
Because someone voiced a concern to the management of the movie theater that a man was in the bathroom, doesn't mean that they were voicing a complaint. Most people, including all the people on this thread that I can see, are compassionate and tolerant of other people and their trials and tribulations in life. People have to be aware of another person's plight before they can be given the chance to be tolerant and compassionate. If after finding out the man had a need to be in the bathroom someone still complained, then one can talk about someone not being tolerant or compassionate.
As far as the school and changing the little girl, the nurse dropped the ball on that one. The father should have been allowed to change his daughter right in the nurse's room. In every school I attended, kindergarten through college, there was always more than one "cubbie" or "cubicle" available for changing, relaxing while waiting for mom or dad to come get a sick child etc.
I totally agree with MushyMushy, RitaZ and JunieJay.
A woman expects to find other women in the lady's room, not a man. And it would not be in the best interest of any woman to find out why a man is in the lady's room. It is in the best interest of the place of business to find out why, if there is a concern (not necessary a complaint!), of a man is in the lady's room. Not all men in the lady's room have a need to be there.
Because someone voiced a concern to the management of the movie theater that a man was in the bathroom, doesn't mean that they were voicing a complaint. Most people, including all the people on this thread that I can see, are compassionate and tolerant of other people and their trials and tribulations in life. People have to be aware of another person's plight before they can be given the chance to be tolerant and compassionate. If after finding out the man had a need to be in the bathroom someone still complained, then one can talk about someone not being tolerant or compassionate.
As far as the school and changing the little girl, the nurse dropped the ball on that one. The father should have been allowed to change his daughter right in the nurse's room. In every school I attended, kindergarten through college, there was always more than one "cubbie" or "cubicle" available for changing, relaxing while waiting for mom or dad to come get a sick child etc.