My brother and I are nearly 10 years apart in age, so I was an only child for a long time, and it seemed like he was as well. I loved being an only child. Don't get me wrong, I do love my brother but we are not close and I never was a child who asked for a sibling. My brother also enjoyed being the "only" child. My dad's an only child and always wanted a sibling, but then we see the drama my mom deals with (still!) with her five brothers and sisters and he realizes it's not so bad not having siblings . Personally, I always figured I'd have two kids but after dealing with infertility we decided we would be more then happy with just one (luckily I ended up with twins).