My opinion is - Who cares what other people think. Have a great trip
I hate rude people, especially being rude to children, so me with the sick humor that I have would say "This week was such a terrible time for her to get the swine flu"
I'm sure I will get some flames for that, but the swine flu has not proven to be any worse than the regular flu which thousands of people die from every year! Illness is a a terrible thing and I do feel for those who have lost their lives and their families, but there is no reason for the ignorance that some exhibit.
I agree with this. People who are giving you dirty looks are doing so because they are SCARED. They're scared that they are going to get sick from being in proximity to you. Why not just say, "Please don't worry. She's not contagious. It's asthma." Then you've said something instead of bottling it up and you've eased their worry as well. It's maybe above what you *have* to do. But it will probably make everyone feel better.I don't want to get flamed for this but...I don't know how happy I would be if I were on a crowded bus with someone who was coughing uncontrolably. You and your party know that she is not contagious, but the rest of the passengers do not know this.
Sadly, we, as humans, do not handle illness in others well. We should be more tolerant, but we are not.
Hopefully, by reading your thread, and discussing it it will help make us more aware.
Doug
It's funny but some of you brought up points that I hadn't really thought of before. Thanks for that. Just goes to show that you can learn something at just about any time!!!
I know that I was disturbed by the reactions to my coughing attacks. And I do cough into my arm...little to no 'spit' is escaping to cover all around me. But, I can understand someone's dismay. THey may be susceptable to germs, may be just recovering from something..how do they know that I'm not covering them with germs! Excellent point.
I guess that anyone who may be subject to coughing attacks could arm themselves with a handkerchief. Just keep it in your pocket and when the coughing attack comes along, just cover the lower half of your face. But you can still explain that there are no germs being spread about!!
This might not be exactly the right venue for this, but it's been bugging me for 9 years and - now that I'm about to embark on my next big Disney adventure - it's resurfaced to bug me even more. Just want to vent.
So, dd has asthma. She's a coughing asthmatic. She overexerts and she coughs like she's going to cough up a lung. She gets a mild headcold and she'll cough like a chronic smoker for the next 4 weeks. Not much we can do about it but do the inhalers and albuterol and - in the worst case scenario, steroids - and just move forward.
9 years ago we were at Disney and was suffering pretty badly with her asthma. She was *not* sick, but she couldn't stop coughing. As a result, we got some of the nastiest looks from people. Taking Disney transportation was a nightmare because people made an obvious attempt to stay away from her. They'd sit near her, hear her cough, give us a dirty look, and then get up and move away deliberately.
In all the years we've dealt with her asthma, the reaction from people at Disney World was *the worst*. I spent the entire time explaining that she truly wasn't sick and that it was her asthma.
So we're leaving for Disney in about 7 weeks. Her asthma has been very mild for several years now, but I can't help but being seriously gun-shy about going to Disney.
Send positive vibes that this trip is much better in that regard than the last...
And we emit germs every time we exhale.....or everytime we touch a surface. I completely understand what you are saying, but really....this is a germ filled world. And while I can understand everyone's concern about the safety of their own family, it's harsh to okay someone's giving a badly coughing child dirty looks as if she were spreading bubonic plague. I would just turn my back and get on with life. There are many more germs on the handrails in the attractions or on the seats themselves on those buses. Other than stay at home, in a bubble, everyone has to 'take their chances' that others are being responsible and not running around contagious. I know...a big responsibility.Good points, however, each of us has germs, even when healthy. And every person would react differently to the 'germs' in someone else's healthy system. So even when healthy we ALL spread germs when we cough or sneeze - we just try to limit it as much as possible.