Don't be sad. We've stayed off site many many times! A Disney vacation is as magical as you make it and the resort really doesn't have to make a difference. I've seen many people in Disney resorts being angry about lines and complaining about their bed.... I totally understand being let down about not getting the vacation you were hoping for, but remind yourself that you'll be in Disney with your great big beautiful family. I wish you the very best vacation, full of laughter and wonderful memories.Sadly we decided to stay off site this year. We are a family of 8 so it's the cheapest route for us. I'm kind of sad but the savings will allow us to go to universal this year. Saving a few thousand just can't be beat