I am directing this to the tri-state area folks ... those who know the "cover your plate" rule.
My brother is remarrying soon. He is in his 40s, second wedding. Bride is in her 20s, first wedding. We want to give them cash as a wedding gift.
Their wedding is low key and simple at bride's parents' home in Virginia. If we were to cover our plate, it would be only about $60/pp. We want to give more than that. It's me, husband, and six-year-old. We're all in the wedding and spending money on shower, bachelor party/bachelorette, wedding party stuff. Not that that should matter.
For his first wedding, 10 years ago, we gave $350.
How much would you give now? $500?
Thanks for your thoughts.
My brother is remarrying soon. He is in his 40s, second wedding. Bride is in her 20s, first wedding. We want to give them cash as a wedding gift.
Their wedding is low key and simple at bride's parents' home in Virginia. If we were to cover our plate, it would be only about $60/pp. We want to give more than that. It's me, husband, and six-year-old. We're all in the wedding and spending money on shower, bachelor party/bachelorette, wedding party stuff. Not that that should matter.
For his first wedding, 10 years ago, we gave $350.
How much would you give now? $500?
Thanks for your thoughts.