The people on this board where there for me throughout my wedding planning, kindly helping at every turn. So I hope it's okay to seek a little support outside wedding planning. Our wedding was two months ago and now my new husband has to leave. He was accepted to do his PhD in Montreal and I can't go with him. There are many reasons I can't go (been down that road over and over and it isn't possible), but most of them are job related. I don't speak French and even if I did there are no job opportunities in my field currently available. And he just won't make enough as a student, even with his grants, to support us both. So, long story short, we'll be apart for at least two years. So I'll have to be a newlywed all by myself. We've already planned on a second honeymoon (a Disney cruise and three days in the World) to celebrate reuniting but I'm still suffering from the blues over the whole thing. I know other couples have been separated before and I know that we will make it though this. But some pixidust would sure be appreciated. Thanks for listening!