Song of the South
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Sep 28, 2011
So...those following the saga our trip happened. We checked into Kidani for the immediate family only portion of our trip. First time at Kidani. Loved the pool but overall liked Jambo better. And that is okay! As we were getting ready to go to dinner (Kouzzina! Yum!) on Wednesday night my DH's work called my cell. They wanted to know if he wanted to take one of his leave days as vacation instead of having to switch shifts with someone. Yes! So that was great.
Friday we checked everyone into BLT. BLT is our home resort and we just love it! My inlaws had the studio adjoined to our 1 bedroom. I was a little bit nonplussed about this but it ended up being fine. They liked having my DDs come over in the morning to tell them hello (But did not want night night snuggles. Weird. I made the offer which is all I can do!) and that was good.
We all attended MNSSHP the first night. Once again, probably the last time we will go but everyone else seemed to enjoy it (and it saved them $$$ to go to the party rather than a regular MK ticket).
DH's uncle showed up to our dinner reservation unannounced at the Plaza. They were gracious and added one so we were 15. Then they split us into 2 tables...wait for it...a 12 top and a 3. I asked for a table adjoining/nearby the other since it was empty. I was told, "No! Different section!" So I sat in the corner 3 top with DH's other aunt and uncle. Still, a little strange.
We really didn't spend much time with his family. He was sad about that. Especially his brother and his brother's family we only saw at dinner the first night. Our plan had been to meet up once a day for one meal. That got changed after the first day by others in the group (not us). We rolled with it but did not like it.
Which helped lead us to the conclusion that we like going to Disney with other people. BUT we go with people we like and want to spend time with and who will spend time with us. Otherwise, even if it is our idea, we feel like we are being used. Not very reinforcing! So, now we know!
His parents had insisted on paying for all meals and tickets but then complained about the prices. Consistently. We had warned them. We said footing the bill for us was unnecessary. Am I the only one who finds that kind of situation totally uncomfortable? At least we had our APs so there could not be grousing over the cost of our tickets.
Overall, we would go with his parents again but probably not the whole family...at least not at our suggestion or points.
So, we survived and I think relationships with grandparents and grandchildren strengthened. 2 of several trip goals accomplished!
Friday we checked everyone into BLT. BLT is our home resort and we just love it! My inlaws had the studio adjoined to our 1 bedroom. I was a little bit nonplussed about this but it ended up being fine. They liked having my DDs come over in the morning to tell them hello (But did not want night night snuggles. Weird. I made the offer which is all I can do!) and that was good.
We all attended MNSSHP the first night. Once again, probably the last time we will go but everyone else seemed to enjoy it (and it saved them $$$ to go to the party rather than a regular MK ticket).
DH's uncle showed up to our dinner reservation unannounced at the Plaza. They were gracious and added one so we were 15. Then they split us into 2 tables...wait for it...a 12 top and a 3. I asked for a table adjoining/nearby the other since it was empty. I was told, "No! Different section!" So I sat in the corner 3 top with DH's other aunt and uncle. Still, a little strange.
We really didn't spend much time with his family. He was sad about that. Especially his brother and his brother's family we only saw at dinner the first night. Our plan had been to meet up once a day for one meal. That got changed after the first day by others in the group (not us). We rolled with it but did not like it.
Which helped lead us to the conclusion that we like going to Disney with other people. BUT we go with people we like and want to spend time with and who will spend time with us. Otherwise, even if it is our idea, we feel like we are being used. Not very reinforcing! So, now we know!
His parents had insisted on paying for all meals and tickets but then complained about the prices. Consistently. We had warned them. We said footing the bill for us was unnecessary. Am I the only one who finds that kind of situation totally uncomfortable? At least we had our APs so there could not be grousing over the cost of our tickets.
Overall, we would go with his parents again but probably not the whole family...at least not at our suggestion or points.
So, we survived and I think relationships with grandparents and grandchildren strengthened. 2 of several trip goals accomplished!