We went to Wednesday's party. Going to the party started out 5 years ago as just DS and me and has grown to include about 20 friends. We dressed as a theme and had a blast, I'm sure we'll be back next year. That said a bit of the bloom is off the rose for me this year.
The Great:
Bag Check and Entry: very, very quick. Bag check was a walk up, all lines open at approx. 2:40 (coming from DD), CM's directing people to lines, one person got wanded very pleasantly, it was all super quick. They opened the gates to partiers around 2:45. All of us had tix scanned on our phones, very easy.
Ride Lines: as short as ever. Virtually walk ons all night incl. Space, ST and Matterhorn. Lines were even extremely short in the 3-6 period with FP's still available (we pulled Indy, Haunted and Thunder in this period.) The heat coulda been keeping non-partiers away.
River Area: great atmosphere as always. Love the Dans and talking scarecrows.
Fireworks: just great
The Meh:
Costumed Guests: dramatic decline, took a bit of the festive atmosphere out.
Parade: I know it's improved, but overall it's still meh. Fortunately we got a curbside spot 15 minutes before the second show. 30 minutes tops is what it's worth for us.
Treat Trails: these were an ugh to us and the set up this year clogged up the park. The trails have become major set ups with more taping off to include switchbacks and long roped off areas (ropes extended much further this year.) There were far more CM's acting as directionals with wands waving people in, through, around, etc. We skipped the Toon Town preparty this year in lieu of short ride lines and some character photos and didn't do trails till later. This part of the experience felt like we were just being herded around.
Big Thunder Ranch: boy do we miss this area
Ultimately I guess my feeling is that the party has just gotten too big for its britches. It's lost a bit of the special party atmosphere and felt more like a regular park experience with candy and fog thrown in. Disney doesn't really do quaint as well anymore. We will be back, but more for the special experience with our friends as opposed to a special Disney experience.