scottishduffy
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- Aug 21, 2007
I attended a birthday party for a toddler age child recently. The parents are good friends of ours and had said on the invite "No Gifts Necessary".
I fully understand this. I requested books only for my DD's birthday to keep clutter down. Everyone (including these friends) were happy to do no gifts or bring a book. She has multiple children and has tons of toys! We have even talked about decreasing clutter of toys in the past.
Anyway, I see the "No gifts necessary" and decide to respect that. After all, I fully understand how much junk small children acquire. We arrive at the party and there is a large gift table set up. *Everyone* else at the party brought gifts. Not just small tokens, I am talking about multiple large gifts. A huge spread of toddler toys. I am the only heel without a gift. Even all the friends in our social group (we have all had no gift discussions before) brought gifts in spite of the request. It was too late for me to run out and get something.
What do you do in this situation? DH and I felt embarrassed to be the only ones not to give a gift. Do you apologize? Send a belated gift? Just ignore it but feel like a cheap *******? In the future do I just keep an emergency gift in the car in case this happens again?
I fully understand this. I requested books only for my DD's birthday to keep clutter down. Everyone (including these friends) were happy to do no gifts or bring a book. She has multiple children and has tons of toys! We have even talked about decreasing clutter of toys in the past.
Anyway, I see the "No gifts necessary" and decide to respect that. After all, I fully understand how much junk small children acquire. We arrive at the party and there is a large gift table set up. *Everyone* else at the party brought gifts. Not just small tokens, I am talking about multiple large gifts. A huge spread of toddler toys. I am the only heel without a gift. Even all the friends in our social group (we have all had no gift discussions before) brought gifts in spite of the request. It was too late for me to run out and get something.
What do you do in this situation? DH and I felt embarrassed to be the only ones not to give a gift. Do you apologize? Send a belated gift? Just ignore it but feel like a cheap *******? In the future do I just keep an emergency gift in the car in case this happens again?