This might be why your cats are tolerated more in UK. Most of the gripes here aren't about innocent kitties frolicking in the sun. The gripes are about someone else's damn cat tearing up gardens, scratching paint on cars and crapping/peeing in kid's sand boxes.
Amen. No one loves cats more than I. My 18 y.o. adored, albeit demanding cat is proof of that.
We've always lived in suburbs and keeping her indoors is the way to keep her alive, so that's what we did. Just a few years ago, her "sister cat" died at 16. For all those years,
WE took care of their poop and pee. No, it was not a task we delighted in, but as pet owners, it was
OUR responsibility. Let's not even get into the hairballs and vomit.
But that's where I draw the line. I do not want anyone else's cat crap in my flower beds or bark mulch. It's just not something that gives me joy. About 2 years ago, the cat of the neighbor behind us started coming into our front yard and using it as his litter box. Once the habit was there, he wanted to do it all the time. I went to their house and told them it had to stop or I'd have to trap the cat and turn it over to the humane society. And I meant it. (And you can do it here if the cat roams loose.) He had the nerve to say to me, "What are we supposed to do? Keep it in the house? We have hardwood floors."
I don't give a rat's hiney about your floors, bud. Your cat = your cat poop.
I told him that I had never once left my cat's poop in his yard and I expected the same courtesy. I won't get into what the nut said next, expect to say he told me it was okay if we killed the cat.
I told him I didn't want to kill the cat. I just wanted the pooping to stop and for him to be a responsible pet owner. For about 1 1/2 years, it stopped. I figured the cat was inside, given away, or a goner. Then it started again and I confirmed it was the same cat.
I went back over with the cat poop in a ziplock bag and rang the doorbell. My plan was to tell him that if it continued, he'd get every bit of poop back daily, plus my cat's as well. But they weren't home. So I left the poop at his front door. I kid you not, as I was doing this, that *^%$#@ cat was next door, crapping the the neighbor's flower garden.
I guess the owner got the hint from the ziplocked poop, because the cat stopped coming over.
My property doesn't need cat crap, thanks so much. If it did, I'd take my own cat's and spread it about. There is a reason it is called
PRIVATE property. Sure, they can let their cat outside, provided it does not come on to my property. Fine and dandy. My cat bothers no one and I want the same from others. I take care of her poop and her poop alone. My child doesn't play in it and I don't want her stepping in that of any other cat.
ETA: About that nut job's wood floors....When we were building a house, we could have opted for wood floors. But the 16 y.o. cat had just died and we saw what happened in the last few months when she had kidney failure. She had lots of accidents. If we'd had wood floors, they'd have been ruined. Knowing our other cat was getting quite old and she might face the same in her last days, we passed on wood floors. The poor cat wouldn't be able to help it, and I didn't want us to be frustrated if our floors got ruined. We figured we can put them in later. The cat meant more to us than the floors. Clearly, this guy couldn't say the same.