Well ... maybe instead of relying on texting and ".com" options, you should go out and MEET people!
[*]Join a club, or find an organization that does something you're interested in and volunteer there -- animal shelters, libraries, festivals, art galleries ... lots of groups are looking for volunteers.
[*]Take a class -- cooking class, language classes, public speaking, ballroom dancing ... choose something that requires interaction.
[*]Borrow a friend's dog and go to a local dog park.
[*]Find something you really like to do and just go do it. If you like bookstores, spend time in bookstores. Ask other people what they're reading. See if there are book clubs you can join. If you like to travel, find a tour group that caters to single travelers and go somewhere. If you like acting, find a community theater that needs help. There are tons of options.
Cultivating a group of friends that you can talk to and hang out with does require some work. But you have to go out there and do it. And don't be afraid of people who are ten years older than you. Some of my best friends are 10+ years older (and in a couple of cases younger) than me. But we have common interests, so we're great friends.