I have no idea what to do with my hair.. I have medium (just below shoulder) lenght hair, very wavy and very very thick. Any time I try to do an updo it is way too heavy. I would like to have an up-do, but I know my DH doesn't like anything that looks like a bun. Is any one out there wearing thier hair down/ half up curled?? I'm just nervous since I don't know who is doing my hair and can not have a trial session..