powellrj
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 2, 2003
I have been married for 30+ years and I can tell you if my DH ever tried anything like this we wouldn't have been married that long!
I know your heart is in the right place, but she may have lots going on in her life that she needs to deal with before you leave. Are there any appointments she has that need to be canceled, does she work outside the home which is a whole other area that needs to be dealt with.
My DH thinks he knows what goes on around the house, but the reality is there is a lot that goes on that the has no clue. If I were to just leave in 3 weeks for a vacation, it would be a nightmare of kids and work and home to be taken care of before I even think about taking off. I am planning a trip for the end of March and just getting the kids and work issues taken care of is a full time job!
I know your heart is in the right place, but she may have lots going on in her life that she needs to deal with before you leave. Are there any appointments she has that need to be canceled, does she work outside the home which is a whole other area that needs to be dealt with.
My DH thinks he knows what goes on around the house, but the reality is there is a lot that goes on that the has no clue. If I were to just leave in 3 weeks for a vacation, it would be a nightmare of kids and work and home to be taken care of before I even think about taking off. I am planning a trip for the end of March and just getting the kids and work issues taken care of is a full time job!