Okay...DD10 is about to drive me crazy with her eating habits!!! I am looking for advice from those of you who have picky children who are around age 9-11. I, of course, hoped DD would grow out of this, but she has not so I am trying to find ways to come to terms with it and just accept it rather than trying to change her.
Please note...we have tried the "you have to eat whatever I cook or wait until tomorrow" approach and all we get is a child who sits at the table and cries and gags and ruins dinner for everyone...so I am looking for different suggestions at this point.
Anyway...DD will eat primarily these things: mac and cheese, pizza, bagel bites, chicken nuggets, hot dogs, fried chicken drumsticks, quesadilllas, pancakes, bacon, fruit, yogurt, cheese, milk, juice..and any kind of bread! She will not eat fish (too smelly), chicken breast (too dry), hamburger/steak, and vegetables except for carrots and corn.
So, what have any of you come to at this point? Do you provide your child with a list of acceptable foods and let them make their own dinner? Do you cook them something separate? Do you just have them eat cereal? DH and DS will eat most things that I propose...much of it being casseroles or spicy things that I can understand DD not wanting (she seems to be very sensitive to spices and textures).
Would LOVE any helpful ideas! (and will try to ignore any flames about how stupid we are for letting our child control meals and what we cook! )
Please note...we have tried the "you have to eat whatever I cook or wait until tomorrow" approach and all we get is a child who sits at the table and cries and gags and ruins dinner for everyone...so I am looking for different suggestions at this point.
Anyway...DD will eat primarily these things: mac and cheese, pizza, bagel bites, chicken nuggets, hot dogs, fried chicken drumsticks, quesadilllas, pancakes, bacon, fruit, yogurt, cheese, milk, juice..and any kind of bread! She will not eat fish (too smelly), chicken breast (too dry), hamburger/steak, and vegetables except for carrots and corn.
So, what have any of you come to at this point? Do you provide your child with a list of acceptable foods and let them make their own dinner? Do you cook them something separate? Do you just have them eat cereal? DH and DS will eat most things that I propose...much of it being casseroles or spicy things that I can understand DD not wanting (she seems to be very sensitive to spices and textures).
Would LOVE any helpful ideas! (and will try to ignore any flames about how stupid we are for letting our child control meals and what we cook! )