Mickey'snewestfan
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- Apr 26, 2005
The difference is one is earned, the other is a societal benefit. Defining them as the same is the problem. They are not.
Here's the issue I have with this "it's now their money..." argument. Suppose a person/couple with a child is receiving WIC, welfare and unemployment. It's all their money, right? Suppose they find a way, like getting a roommate to offset living costs, which isn't a bad idea, takes the difference and splurges on something really non-essential, like some jewelery or an expensive set of shoes or has a premium smart-phone or cable with 250 channels and HBO channels. Why should taxpayers be on the hook for those?
Why shouldn't it be up to the person receiving these benefits to make personal sacrifices to reduce the cost to taxpayers?
So the person who spends all their money on rent is fine, but the person who budgets and then spends their budget on something legal is irresponsible?
Here's the reality. There are people out there who make irresponsible choices, although working with a tight budget so that you have a little money at the end isn't one of them. But there really isn't a way to police every choice you make without making it impossible for the people who are doing the right thing. Or doing most of the right thing, or as well as they can, or trying to change to doing the right thing, which is already a lot to ask.
I can think of a family I know (I'm changing details to protect identities, but the thread of the story is true). It's a family headed by 2 sisters who have 9 children between them, 6 from Mom A, 3 from Mom B. The family lives together in a 3 bedroom apartment, they have a voucher that would let them each get a single family house with more bedrooms, but subsidized housing is very hard to get in my area so they share the crowded apartment.
Income comes from a variety of sources. Mom A works at 7 - 11 overnight, but the salary is very low so she still qualifies for rent assistance, medicaid and foodstamps. She would qualify for childcare assistance, but doesn't use it. She also receives a little child support for her youngest but it's erratic, and a SSDI check for her 4th child who has an intellectual disability. Her 3 oldest, all teenagers, work part time or in the summer, and pay for most of their own clothes and school supplies and field trips.
Mom B used to work as a home CNA doing home health but her oldest has a major medical condition and she was fired for missing work to take him to the Dr.. She's in the process of looking for a job, and of applying for SSDI for her oldest, but hasn't been successful in either so right now her only source of cash income in TANF. She gets food stamps and medicaid, and qualifies for rent assistance and childcare assistance, neither of which she uses. None of her children are old enough to work, and she receives no child support.
Working together, the family gets by. Mom A lets Mom B use her car to go to Dr.'s appointment for child A1. Mom B watches Mom's A's kids overnight, and in return Mom A lets her stay for free. Mom B watches all the little ones after headstart/school until Mom A comes home from job training. Because Mom B isn't paying for things like rent, and both moms aren't paying for childcare there is sometimes money for little luxuries like slightly nicer clothes, or cable TV (nice to have when you're trying to entertain lots of kids in a small space, in an area where playing outside isn't safe) or an outing for the children.
Let's imagine that, by choosing to share a home, and a car, and work opposite shifts the women are saving the state $1500 a month in rent subsidy, and $5000 a month in childcare. They also save themselves $1000 in car payments, insurance, and the portion of rent and childcare they'd need to pay themselves. Are we really going to punish them if they spend a portion of that money on cable or take the kids to Chuck E. Cheese? If so, what do you think they'll do -- gladly handle over the money, or think about putting the kids in childcare?
This fall the oldest of the kids left for college out of state, a minor miracle for a kid who saved her pennies and worked very hard for a scholarship. Our whole school community was so proud of her. But despite being a brave, hardworking kid who overcame the odds, she's also a 17 year old who had never spent the night in a room that didn't have another family member in it, and had only crossed a state line once before on a school field trip. She was scared of this transition. Mom A couldn't afford to take off work to take her to college, and the car's a little rickety and might not make it that far, so they bought a couple of $25 tickets on the BOLT bus and her aunt accompanied her to college, settled her in, slept in the dorm room for a night, and got back on the bus to come back home.
We don't live in Maine, but if we did there would probably be charges from her EBT card from the distant state showing up. After all, when she was there she probably bought herself a couple of meals, and the bus ticket home, and maybe helped her niece out with some things she needed like school supplies.
I am not naive or stupid. I know that my story isn't "every family", but it's one real family I know. I don't see a way that you can radically restrict how people spend their cash benefits without allowing people who are trying to reap the benefits of budgeting, or denying them the ability to make the choices that will lift their families out of poverty. People on this thread are crying out that "rent assistance should be for rent" and I agree 100%, but we already have systems in place to ensure that rent assistance, food stamps, childcare assistance, and medicaid go where they're supposed to go. The reality, however, is that people need things that aren't in those 4 categories. They need gas, and clothes, and bandaids, and toilet paper and pencils, and sometimes a bus ticket out of state to take a scared kid to college, and the only way we can provide those things for people in need is to allow people to make choices.