I have to agree with all the other people who have said that overall,
our Disney cruise was great, we had a blast and can't wait till we can afford to book another one!
As for what didn't quite measure up to what we were expecting based on reading this board, here's our list:
1) Dining room waiters~ Ours were nice regular waiters like in any other restaurant, but certainly not "magical" or different in any other way. They greeted us by name and brought what we ordered and that was it. But we never received any kind of friendly interaction toward us or our children (we saw other kids with some kind of napkin hats, so I guess other waiters do stuff for kids). No one in my party was disappointed (except me) because they weren't expecting anything but someone to bring them their dinner, and the wait staff did that.
However, I can't imagine anyone in my group wanting to come greet our waiters on later cruises because there just wasn't any kind of personal interaction from them. They were polite waiters, nothing more.
2) Pirate party ~ For small kids it was just too loud, too crowded and too late at night. My family was relieved when we left and went back to the cabin.
3) Topsider desserts ~ They all *looked* so wonderful....but when you actually got down to eating them they were a whole lot of whipped cream and not much flavor. Even my kids never seemed to finish theirs. My kids said all the desserts "were full of foam" and when we saw that round ball-thing on the top of the ship, the littlest one said "that must be where they keep all that foam they put in the desserts"...
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Things that were as good or better than I was expecting:
1)
The cleanup service by the CMs in Topsiders. They kept all the tables cleaned up and cleared dishes from our table as soon as we finished with them.
2)
The aft elevator We avoided so many crowds by using this elevator instead of the midship one.
3)
Oceaneers Lab Both my kids loved it and made friends with the counselors.