DF and I have been together for 5 years (DF is 35 and I'm 33) and are finally planning our DFTW for Jan/08! This will be DF 2nd marriage and my first. He has two DDs from 1st marriage who I adore, and of course share his surname. Looking for your opinions on whether or not I should change my name--DF is impartial as he is not involved with his bio-father, and has closer ties to his stepdad. Also, I'm not into the idea of hyphenating. Just thinking the whole name change thing is more paperwork than anything. So whatta ya think?