I know it's a weird title, but has this ever happened to any of you. I have had a group of friends I have been close wth since high school. My wife and I are in our early and mid 40s. The writing has been on the wall for a while, but we continued to attend social affairs and get togethers and even a couple of vacations. But lately, everytime we get together, we feel lousy. They have changed or we have changed or both. There is a group of them and they all have become so materialistic. My friends in high school all managed to become very successful in their chosen fields, but I have not. I really don't feel that bad about it, until I'm in their company. I mean I have a decent job and I am happy with my life, but I am not impressed by what people have. They have all become so into the big houses, and who has what, that I have nothing in common with them anymore. Not to put women down, but it seems like the wifes are the worst. They all live in million dollar homes and drive cars that cost what my house did 13 years ago. All they seem to talk about is money or status.
I feel bad, because my wife and I think we want to stop socializing with them, because it makes us so depressed that we no longer have the friends we thought we had. Basically at 42 and 46 we are not that good at making new friends and feel really bad about this. But I just don't like hanging out with people who have become so shallow that they judge people on the size of their wallet. They continue to invite us to things, but I think it is because they feel obligated.
I was just wondering if anyone else had this kind of experience.
I feel bad, because my wife and I think we want to stop socializing with them, because it makes us so depressed that we no longer have the friends we thought we had. Basically at 42 and 46 we are not that good at making new friends and feel really bad about this. But I just don't like hanging out with people who have become so shallow that they judge people on the size of their wallet. They continue to invite us to things, but I think it is because they feel obligated.
I was just wondering if anyone else had this kind of experience.