eeyore3847
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 1, 2007
I feel bad for your situation.
I think you need to sit down with step dad and apologize. You jumped without thinking. Also think your son needs to calm down and you need to also! I would not allow this man to just SHOW UP out of the blue and expect a relationship. I think the 3 of you ( step dad, bio dad and you) should sit down and talk about what his INTENTIONS are and set up a specific bi - weekly or weekly SUPERVISED event. Let your son get to know him. YOur son is in a magical place in which he thinks bio dad has done nothing wrong! it needs to be a gradual meeting and then go from there.
This was not handled correctly but can be fixed
I think you need to sit down with step dad and apologize. You jumped without thinking. Also think your son needs to calm down and you need to also! I would not allow this man to just SHOW UP out of the blue and expect a relationship. I think the 3 of you ( step dad, bio dad and you) should sit down and talk about what his INTENTIONS are and set up a specific bi - weekly or weekly SUPERVISED event. Let your son get to know him. YOur son is in a magical place in which he thinks bio dad has done nothing wrong! it needs to be a gradual meeting and then go from there.
This was not handled correctly but can be fixed