Actually, I'm not referring to you at all. In fact, I highly enjoy your posts - you are beyond knowledgeable about vacation club ownership and timeshares. This is what I'm referring to, so please, continue to share your knowledge as that is extremely helpful.
That being said, perhaps you've misunderstood me. Being a teacher, I'm all about research, which is what you are referring to in your post. Everyone, should be knowledgeable and educated on any and all decisions - especially financial and time consuming decisions such as vacation ownership/timeshares. I think this kind of info, such as what you seem to always be able to give in your very well written responses, is extremely helpful. I'm not suggesting that stop at all, in fact, that is what we need more of - with less personal opinion and sarcasm aside.
I am more speaking about the generalizations that constantly permeate the DISboards at times, whether they are on the side of owing or not owning. As you, I, and so many others have said, we must do what is best for our family's needs, while keeping in mind all of the variables that go into that decision. Just making a rash decision to purchase based on "Disney magic" is not responsible, IMHO. If after careful thought and consideration, Disney magic is part of your decision, then that's great. My point is that at times, during these types of discussion, and others, those of us who own, are sometimes made to feel like we didn't make a good decision because we probably only based it on Disney magic... Making people feel foolish just because you don't agree with their decision to purchase, or not purchase, is not necessary, IMHO. There are people who seem to fight to the death that DVC is financially not responsible - there is someone who constantly uses this line of thinking whatever board she frequents. That generalization is not helpful, nor is it correct. It may not be financially responsible for
her situation, but it sure is for thousands of other families. My DH and I believe that owning DVC is financially responsible for us, as we know our situation best, so for someone else to fight us on this is plain silly. This is what I'm referring to. Sharing positive and negative concerns about DVC is imperative in helping people making sound decisions - it helped us greatly in making our decision. We need to continue to share that type of info as that is what is most helpful.
Hopefully, this has better explained my points, Tiger