Here's my take.
First off, let me start out by saying I HATE PITTSBURGH!!! HATE IT! HATE IT! HATE IT!!!
Okay, just kidding. When I was growing up I never lived in a place longer than 3 years so I got used to moving around and new things. I ended up here in Pittsburgh as my dad worked for Alcoa. I was here for 3 years and then a stint in Texas and now have been here since 1985 (OH MY GOD!!
).
I've lived in Bradford Woods (The Village), Shaler, Allison Park and Bethel Park. I work downtown.
I am a graduate of Hampton and Pitt. I bleed black and gold!!
Here's my take:
The NUMBER ONE thing you MUST understand is that the area is sharply split due to topography. You've got three rivers separating the city:
The Monongahela (The Mon), The Allegheny and the Ohio.
The Mon and Allegheny come together to form the Ohio that starts at the tip, known as the Point, of downtown.
Due to this, there are ridges on either side of town, more prominently on the southern side hence tunnels (we call them Tubes). This has caused the city to somewhat segregate each area. You'll find a large percentage of people from the North Hills WON'T go to the South Hills and vice versa. As we like to say, we don't like to cross water!
I've lived in both the North Hills and South Hills and I'd have to say that my preference is for the South Hills. While there is more traffic, it just seems like things are more convienent. Granted, I live in Bethel Park and I am two roads over from South Hills Village (home of the only
Disney Store in the area
) which is one of the major malls around town. It also acts as the terminus for the "T" which is the train/trolley system that runs in the South Hills only and goes into Downtown where I work.
You mention Mt Lebanon and $200K. You won't get much for that. Small yard and house most likely (but you may get lucky).
My suggestion is actually going to point you to either Bethel Park or Peter's Township. Depending on how you go, it'd be Mt Lebanon, Bethel Park, Upper St Clair and then Peter's. By the time you get to Peter's, you will find that things start to spread out a bit. Larger plots of land, etc... Bethel Park is in Allegheny County and Peter's places you just over the border into Washington County which I'm told has lower taxes. In both Bethel Park and Peter's you can get a pretty decent house and yard in your price range and you have good schools. They are both convienent to major highway systems and shopping and if you get jobs in the South Hills, traffic is not an issue at all. Also, crime rates are extremely low in these area's.
And I completely agree with what they say about us from the 'Burgh...as a whole, we are probably the friendliest urban area you'll find. I like to say the we're a big city with a small town attitude.