You sure do have a way with offending people, even though that, apparently, isn't your intention.
My husband and I can hold our heads up high. We are good parents, who are not embarrassed about keeping our children safe.
Guess what, all children are different. Just because you, with your awesome parenting skills, have kept your children safe without a harness, doesn't mean you'd be able to control all children that way.
I agree. Every child is different. I happen to have six who are all different. The first one, very busy but didn't use one because there were always a million adults watching him (first grandchild both sides). The next two did not leave my side (still don't). The next two, I had no choice. Two boys a year apart. No way was I going to risk losing one. Sometimes you just cannot take a double stroller everywhere you go due to space. I also had a lot more to do since I had older kids. My fifth son was off the wall-he walked at nine months and was extremely hyper active. We would lose him in the house. My sixth chidl is the exact same way however, by the time she was born I had older kids who helped.
Every situation is different just like every child is different. Those that say they would never use them will eat their words when the next child they have is not like the first.