We just returned from WDW and attended
MVMCP on 11/30 with our three DD's, ages 3, 5 and 7. It was wonderful. We arrived at MK at 4:00 in order to make our dinner reservation at Cindy's Royal Table at 4:20 -- afterwards, we visited Fantasyland and literally walked onto all the rides until 6:00 when they sent us to Tomorrowland where we walked onto Indy Speedway, Space Mountain, Buzz Lightyear and Stitch's Great Escape. By then, the rest of the park re-opened and we walked into the Haunted Mansion (found the "ring", too!) and then onto Aladdin's Magic Carpets and Big Thunder Mountain Railroad...well, you get the idea. The absolute BEST part was riding BTMR during the Wishes fireworks finale! The line was so short we were able to ride it twice DURING the fireworks!
Each of my DD's had autograph books and got tons of signatures. Not to mention the "snow" on main street, the fabulous parade, free hot cocoa and cookies, etc. and etc.!!
Yes, there is a fee - but IMHO, it's worth every penny. My DH complained a bit at the cost of the tickets when I first ordered -- when the night was through, he said we needed to go to MVMCP every year!
It was great -- the only complaint I had were the mosquitos - I think I was bitten a dozen times. A small price to pay though, for a wonderful time!