Dudspizza, congratulations on your upcoming anniversary.
Sammie is absolutely correct in that you shouldn't count on receiving anything during your upcoming vacation. It sounds lilke you already know that from what you mentioned.
I have spent many anniversaries in Walt Disney World. I have always planned my own special ways of celebrating, and because I did so, I was never disappointed. We have celebrated with group dinners at the Luau, the Hoop-Dee-Doo, Victoria & Albert's, and even some private events. Once or twice we did unexpectedly receive a card & balloon arrangement from our resort. Those items were just icing on an already wonderful anniversary celebration.
Since 10 years is worth celebrating, do consider contacting the
Disney Florist (click here) for a special floral arrangement or a basket of goodies. Nothing is more fun than surprising your spouse with something a little unexpected (take it from me, the sneaky one in my marriage
).
Or how 'bout surprising your spouse with a special golf lesson for the two of you (
click here)? I don't golf but have taken a few lessons in WDW and they have been an absolute hoot.
Or how 'bout considering any number of fun recreational activities (
click here)? Do something that you don't normally do, like a guided fishing excursion (I don't fish due to seafood allergies but have a ball on the excursions with my family), a couple of rounds of miniature golf, a lunchtime cruise on a pontoon boat, or a horseback ride. The possibilities are endless.
Doing something unique on your vacation will make your anniversary even more memorable than it will be. And if you happen to get an autographed photo of Mickey & Minnie, it will just add to your magical memories. Happy anniversary!