My suggestion is if it's in his room, close the door and let it be. If his things are cluttering the shared spaces in the house, he should pick it up.
My only requirement was that they kept a path to the window clear so I could open or close it for the weather.
As the wife of a man whose parents didn't make him clean his room, I beg you, make them do SOMETHING to their rooms on a regular basis. DH is terrible about picking up after himself. He would rather do a big cleanup 2 or 3 times a year than pick up after himself daily.
We've discussed that his cleaning methodology won't fly when our daughter is a teenager and he needs to set a better example when she gets here. In the meantime, any junk he leaves lying around winds up in his office (lovingly chucked in there by me). He's in his 30's, doesn't clean his room/office, so I shut the door.
I don't know the answer to that. (My DH and my brother were both encouraged to keep their rooms relatively clean - not perfect - and both of them are the same - relatively neat, not perfect - as adults.)So, my question is, if you don't guide your kids in keeping their personal space neat and clean now, and teach them to respect and take responsibility for what is in it, do you think this is something they will magically develop at some point in life or is it a maturity thing, etc.?
As the wife of a man whose parents didn't make him clean his room, I beg you, make them do SOMETHING to their rooms on a regular basis. DH is terrible about picking up after himself. He would rather do a big cleanup 2 or 3 times a year than pick up after himself daily.
We've discussed that his cleaning methodology won't fly when our daughter is a teenager and he needs to set a better example when she gets here. In the meantime, any junk he leaves lying around winds up in his office (lovingly chucked in there by me). He's in his 30's, doesn't clean his room/office, so I shut the door.
So, my question is, if you don't guide your kids in keeping their personal space neat and clean now, and teach them to respect and take responsibility for what is in it, do you think this is something they will magically develop at some point in life or is it a maturity thing, etc.?
So, my question is, if you don't guide your kids in keeping their personal space neat and clean now, and teach them to respect and take responsibility for what is in it, do you think this is something they will magically develop at some point in life or is it a maturity thing, etc.?
So, my question is, if you don't guide your kids in keeping their personal space neat and clean now, and teach them to respect and take responsibility for what is in it, do you think this is something they will magically develop at some point in life or is it a maturity thing, etc.?