Just confirm that DME has the correct flight info for everyone. I recently took a girls trip with a college friend, and she left a day earlier than me. I confirmed our flight departure info at the DME welcome desk on our day of arrival. She rec'd a letter from DME the day before her departure noting her pick-up time and then I rec'd a letter the day before my departure. If you don't receive a letter for your husband the day before his departure, call the DME number and inquire about his pick-up time. Just FYI, my friend and I also arrived on separate airlines from different airports. Everything with DME went very smoothly.