These family members have paid back previous loans, but when they are late with their loan payments, we have to ask. We hate that feeling.
Do you loan money to relatives? And if you don't, how did you handle refusing loan requests? Did it damage relationships?
Yes I believe that people are more important then money. If a family member needs help I will try to help, one of my sisters is a single mom she has no backup.
So when I found out she was going to one of those payday loan sharks places I stepped in. She isn't great with money but works and makes good money, after her X stopped paying any child support she was just a few hundred dollars off each month and got behind, then she tried to catch up using the Loan Sharks. She has always paid me back but she sometimes is late (I hate having to ask) when she is I just send her a text as a reminder.
I never loan money unless I think of it as a gift if things don't work out.
I would try and never let it effect my relationship.