Since the teacher framed this as pros and cons, perhaps the thing to do is to sit down with your daughter and make a list of the pros and cons. If the cons really do outweigh the pros, maybe this is the last time you'll be able to pull her from school. Use this as an opportunity to teach critical thinking and decision making - as well as understanding that people have different priorities.
It might also be worthwhile to define for yourself and your daughter's teachers what you feel is the upper limit of days you will pull your child from school for something like a vacation. For some people, this number is zero, no exceptions. For others it much higher. Some people its variable....a larger number for elementary school children a smaller number for a high school kid - and maybe none for a high school kid having problems making good grades. I can see why a teacher might be concerned - the school year is not yet half over and you've pulled your kids for two family vacations - a person with a low tolerance for missing school might wonder what Spring will bring. It is possible that your priorities and the schools priorities are incompatible enough that home schooling will be a good option.
I'm currently taking college courses, and its amazing to me how many students in college miss many of the classes, and then are astounded when they don't do well. In many cases, attendance is tied to the grade. In other cases, they just don't know the material because they weren't in class. They haven't been taught that attendance is important. Its also really frustrating when we have to cover material we've already covered because a student felt something else was more important than showing up to class. Its terribly disrespectful of my time, I was there the first time it was taught.