kimblebee
now my thoughts will be worth 5 cents
- Joined
- May 28, 2009
OP, I've raised three sons and two granddaughters. I want very much to tell you it will be fine. It won't.
Sweet tap-dancing Jeebus. 14 year-old boyfriend and girlfriend having sleepovers because you know, it's OK, they're in separate rooms. Does no one think they might SNEAK into each other's room?
Your 10 year-old is next up What age can he/she have sleepover privileges?
OP, my advice FWIW is not to leave your 17 year old without supervision. He has shown that he is unreliable. And the consequences are not just awww, he missed a few days of school. The consequences are legal liability for the underage party that will happen at your house.
Let's just take a breath here...