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<font color=blue>Clothing Expert and Magic Giver o
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2004
So...a series of events has left DH and I in a bind. Here is the short version to get you caught up to present day:
About 4 months ago, I come home one day to see some construction begining next to our apartment complex. Actually, it's right behind us...as in I can throw a stone and have it hit the new apartments being built right outside our patio . Our apartment complex decided to buy the huge lot behind us and build more upscale apartments. My beautiful field is gone. Every morning we now wake at 7 to the sounds of construction . wait, sorry I said I'd give you the short version...
DH and I decided that first night it was time to move. We aren't in a position to buy a house yet so looked at area apartments. We are now on the waiting list for apartments my grandparents live in. It is cheaper and more sq footage-perfect! we are now a little over 30 days until lease is up and still no news from the apartments we want to move to. If need be, my parents offered to have me, DH, and our furbaby move in with them. We are all a tight family and I really don't mind. I am THANKFUL that I have such wonderful parents.
So we talked today and I let them know DH and I would want to pay rent. They said no, absolutely not. Mom said we would have our own food/meals of course (since we all work various hours and would hardly be able to eat together).
I guess what I'm looking for from you guys is guidance...I want to give something to show my gratitude. I know I would never be able to hand them money. I'm sure they'd feel insulted probably. I was thinking when I do my slow-cooker meals, I could do enough for everyone. But my sis still lives at home (final year of college for her- wahoo!) and is a vegetarian, mom has diabetes, and dad has high blood pressure so that limits meals I can make for them. Any other ideas?
Of course we will help with the chores as much as possible. I get kind of limited because of my rheumatoid-arthritis. Prayerfully if we have to stay with my parents, it won't be long until something opens up for us in the apartment complex.
Ok, let those ideas fly!
About 4 months ago, I come home one day to see some construction begining next to our apartment complex. Actually, it's right behind us...as in I can throw a stone and have it hit the new apartments being built right outside our patio . Our apartment complex decided to buy the huge lot behind us and build more upscale apartments. My beautiful field is gone. Every morning we now wake at 7 to the sounds of construction . wait, sorry I said I'd give you the short version...
DH and I decided that first night it was time to move. We aren't in a position to buy a house yet so looked at area apartments. We are now on the waiting list for apartments my grandparents live in. It is cheaper and more sq footage-perfect! we are now a little over 30 days until lease is up and still no news from the apartments we want to move to. If need be, my parents offered to have me, DH, and our furbaby move in with them. We are all a tight family and I really don't mind. I am THANKFUL that I have such wonderful parents.
So we talked today and I let them know DH and I would want to pay rent. They said no, absolutely not. Mom said we would have our own food/meals of course (since we all work various hours and would hardly be able to eat together).
I guess what I'm looking for from you guys is guidance...I want to give something to show my gratitude. I know I would never be able to hand them money. I'm sure they'd feel insulted probably. I was thinking when I do my slow-cooker meals, I could do enough for everyone. But my sis still lives at home (final year of college for her- wahoo!) and is a vegetarian, mom has diabetes, and dad has high blood pressure so that limits meals I can make for them. Any other ideas?
Of course we will help with the chores as much as possible. I get kind of limited because of my rheumatoid-arthritis. Prayerfully if we have to stay with my parents, it won't be long until something opens up for us in the apartment complex.
Ok, let those ideas fly!