buf68
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Apr 25, 2006
I guess I should start with the story.
in 2004 my father was diangosed with ALS. He was 41 at the time and it was the worst form possible (bulbar). A year later as he worstend we were givin a fairy godmother foundation trip to disney world and for 2 weeks go to forget about everything and just spend time in the most magical place on earth.
Shortly after that, my now DH proposed to me. It was somewhat quick but we knew it was right. However, shortly thereafter (a few months) DH lost his job b/c of downsizing. We were able to go through with everything and my dad even got to walk me down the aisle. for our honeymoon there was only one place i could go that would make me insanely happy, and i had to share that with DH. So we spent a week, just the two of us, in disneyworld!
About a year ago, my father passed away (about 3 years almost to the week after he was dx'ed). It has been so hard for all of us. We aren't close at all with my mother, and she makes it hard to try to be closer.
DH eventually (after a few not so great jobs) got a really great job, but recently he lost it again due to budget concerns. Now we're in a horrible spot. I'm trying so hard to keep it all together, but i'm still dealing with the loss of my dad, and so is DH. and with all the bad luck with jobs we're struggling. I feel like an orphan and DH's family doesn't give much support. The ONE thing i want to do right now is escape to disney again. DH and I were talking about it before he lost his job, but now that postponed indefinately. We miss it so much there....
Anyways, i guess i'm just having a hard time coping. I'm trying to stay strong for my DH, but things are just so hard. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers if you would. And sorry that I just laid this all our here, i know many people are struggling, but disney makes us happy, and I thought maybe sharing this with some disney crazies like us would help somehow.....
in 2004 my father was diangosed with ALS. He was 41 at the time and it was the worst form possible (bulbar). A year later as he worstend we were givin a fairy godmother foundation trip to disney world and for 2 weeks go to forget about everything and just spend time in the most magical place on earth.
Shortly after that, my now DH proposed to me. It was somewhat quick but we knew it was right. However, shortly thereafter (a few months) DH lost his job b/c of downsizing. We were able to go through with everything and my dad even got to walk me down the aisle. for our honeymoon there was only one place i could go that would make me insanely happy, and i had to share that with DH. So we spent a week, just the two of us, in disneyworld!
About a year ago, my father passed away (about 3 years almost to the week after he was dx'ed). It has been so hard for all of us. We aren't close at all with my mother, and she makes it hard to try to be closer.
DH eventually (after a few not so great jobs) got a really great job, but recently he lost it again due to budget concerns. Now we're in a horrible spot. I'm trying so hard to keep it all together, but i'm still dealing with the loss of my dad, and so is DH. and with all the bad luck with jobs we're struggling. I feel like an orphan and DH's family doesn't give much support. The ONE thing i want to do right now is escape to disney again. DH and I were talking about it before he lost his job, but now that postponed indefinately. We miss it so much there....
Anyways, i guess i'm just having a hard time coping. I'm trying to stay strong for my DH, but things are just so hard. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers if you would. And sorry that I just laid this all our here, i know many people are struggling, but disney makes us happy, and I thought maybe sharing this with some disney crazies like us would help somehow.....