EXCUSE ME !!!!!!!
This "bitter 50 year old ... actually 58 year old" would like to say something. We HAVE "invested a bit more" ... have you checked the stock market lately? We HAVE skipped Disney vacations when money was tight and done a weekend at "fill in the blank" but ya know what? I wouldn't trade those family memories for anything; they mean more to all of us than the $20,000 - $30,000 whatever ... we'd have in the bank (which would now be probably $5,000 thanks to Wall Street) had we skipped the FEW Disney trips we've made over the last 30 years.
Would you like to know how ... and why ...our credit card balance grew? Our 28 year old son-in-law DIED after an 18 month illness. His insurance went into effect 2 weeks after he became ill (after being on a job for 3 months he'd worked towards the past 8 years) which meant about $25,000.00 in medical bills to start with! THEN, after insurance coverage began there were co-insurance deductables; yearly deductable; prescription co-pays; non-covered charges; gas and meals to and from doctors/hospitals; MONTHLY INSURANCE PREMIUMS of $450.00 after he lost his job, regular monthly bills that had to be paid with my daughters salary ... and his FUNERAL.
Our daughter, now a 26 year old widow, needed help; son-in-laws parents offered NOTHING. Her TWO credit cards maxed out FAST ... a year ago OUR credit card interest was very, VERY reasonable ... not anymore. CHASE has also pulled the same stunt with us and YES I am angry! Our home equity loan is in the works and this "bitter 50 year old" is just thankful DH and I were able to help our daughter during very trying times.