After reading and reading, and reading this entire thread, I decided to call
DCL myself and really ask the nitty gritty questions.
I just got off the phone with Diane. After talking about some other questions I had regarding excursions and kids clubs, etc and building a nice rapport with her I began my gratuities questions.
I asked her if I had to prepay my gratutities when I booked a new cruise. She said no.
I asked if I had to prepay my gratutities by my PIF date. She said No.
I asked if gratutities were now being included in the total cost of a cruise when a telephone CM quotes a price. She said No.
I asked if gratutities were included in the quoted price of a new cruise when being booked on board a
Disney Cruise. She said No.
I asked if I had not prepaid, would I have to pay my gratutities on embarkation day at Port Canaveral before being allowed to board the ship. She said No.
I asked if DCL has changed or modified their gratutity policy in the last year. She said No.
I asked her if adding gratutities to the total quote would help her sales numbers, and if it might be possible that some CMs were doing just that and that is why some people were getting pressured to pay gratutities up front, and she said anything is possible, but it is NOT a DCL poilicy.
She said gratuities are completely voluntary. She said some travelers are not accustomed to paying gratuities seperately in their home countries, or simply prefer to get it taken care of as part of their cruise fare, so they OFFER that option, but they are not supposed to be pressuring anyone to do anything with regards to tips.
At this point, I thanked and and apologized in advance for what I was about to ask. I asked her to please get a supervisor and confirm all that she had told me as I wanted to make sure nothing new had been released and missed. She was so sweet and put me on hold. Her supervisor (Nancy) confirmed all her answers.
Nancy further elaborated on a few things.
She said she used to work as a future cruise agent onboard the ships and they have always been told to OFFER to add the gratutities. She said they do it as a convenience for guests that prefer that.
But she said they have never been, and are not now, required.
She also said that when you check in at Port Canaveral (or any other port) the people checking you in are not Disney CMs, they are PORT employees. They have no authority to MAKE you pay anything before you board. They take your info for your onboard folio, but no actual charges go through until DCL puts them through, ususally the second day of the cruise.
I'm guessing that's why when getting asked for this payment, someone who posted earlier was told that Guest Services could "reverse" this. What they meant was that the charge was not even going to be put through that day so it was still able to be modified or removed.
She said that even that (asking specifically for a gratutity payment) was not the norm.
She also said that if people were being pressured to prepay their gratutities or were quoted a cruise fare that was higher than what was shown when booking a cruise online, that they should ask to speak with a supervisor, or email DCL about it because it was not the policy.
I think what happened to you is exactly in line with what I was told by both the CM and her supervisor. Your particular agent must have REALLY wanted to include the tips so it would help his numbers. I am glad you held your ground!
My thoughts: All this confusion is really because some CMs are trying to do this same thing, or just find it easier to automatically add them assuming the guest will just pay and not risk a confrontation. And, most people probably do. They say X amount. You pay it and move on. I bet a lot of people don't even notice it!
Sadly, it is inconsistant it seems and causes this kind of misunderstanding when people interpret things differently.
The one DISer who said she paid on embarkation day never said she was told she HAD to pay. She said she FELT like she had to pay. And she has never been back to clarify her statement.
Just because someone is direct and emphatic in how they say "This is the charge for tips" doesn't mean that's that. I wonder if this DISer had said "No, I will be paying all my tips cash. Please take that off my folio", what would have happened then.
I'm just glad to have what I feel is accurate info and I am glad I called DCL directly. I booked through a TA who said all the same things, but asking DCL seemed like a good idea anyway. I will be paying my tips with my OBC