We're heading home to BWV from May 25 - 30 and the whole family is coming. Husband's 20-something son and daughter, their spouses and the 3 year old grandson. Also my DS of 19 and probably a buddy of his. Since the GVs are being refurbished then we're getting a 2 bdrm and 2 studios. And I'm exhausted thinking about it!
Don't get me wrong, I think we'll have a blast! Having everyone together will be great fun, BUT, I don't think it will be particularly restful. It will only be 5 days, which is less than the usual 7 we take for a vacation and it's the first trip for hubby's son, daughter, spouses and grandchild, so I see commando mode coming on. Last year we (me, DH and DS and his buddy) went for 7 days and took the first 2 days at Vero which really helped to unwind us from work before going to WDW. Plus my DS has been before and goes off with his buddy some of the time. So it's the perfect combo of fun plus down time.
I want to go down a couple of days early for "vacation" before the family descends or stay a couple of days to recover. OR I want to schedule another vacation just fr him and me that will be a real vacation. DH thinks I'm being unreasonable to need a vacation from a vacation, doesn't see that 2 days less is that big a deal, and doesn't want the extra expense as obviously this trip will cost a chunk. We're not only supplying the DVC rooms, but also paying for the flights via frequent flyer miles. (And apparently paying cash when we run out of those, which was not what I expected).
I think vacations are absolutely necessary for mental health and help you be more efficient and creative when you get back to work, but DH is focusing on how much time he's missing from his desk. He's also offended that I think I need a rest after having his kids around. He doesn't understand that it's not his kids, it's just that it's so many extra people and we'll have to be "on" all the time.
Am I being a shrew? I'm almost to the point I want to tell them to go and I'll stay home where there's peace and quiet.
Don't get me wrong, I think we'll have a blast! Having everyone together will be great fun, BUT, I don't think it will be particularly restful. It will only be 5 days, which is less than the usual 7 we take for a vacation and it's the first trip for hubby's son, daughter, spouses and grandchild, so I see commando mode coming on. Last year we (me, DH and DS and his buddy) went for 7 days and took the first 2 days at Vero which really helped to unwind us from work before going to WDW. Plus my DS has been before and goes off with his buddy some of the time. So it's the perfect combo of fun plus down time.
I want to go down a couple of days early for "vacation" before the family descends or stay a couple of days to recover. OR I want to schedule another vacation just fr him and me that will be a real vacation. DH thinks I'm being unreasonable to need a vacation from a vacation, doesn't see that 2 days less is that big a deal, and doesn't want the extra expense as obviously this trip will cost a chunk. We're not only supplying the DVC rooms, but also paying for the flights via frequent flyer miles. (And apparently paying cash when we run out of those, which was not what I expected).
I think vacations are absolutely necessary for mental health and help you be more efficient and creative when you get back to work, but DH is focusing on how much time he's missing from his desk. He's also offended that I think I need a rest after having his kids around. He doesn't understand that it's not his kids, it's just that it's so many extra people and we'll have to be "on" all the time.
Am I being a shrew? I'm almost to the point I want to tell them to go and I'll stay home where there's peace and quiet.