I am planning our first cruise and am worrried about what I've read regarding the Oceaneer's Club. Does anyone have independent, charming, and strong-willed children who have done well there? I had assumed before researching/planning that the kids areas were supervised areas for free play with some planned activities. Now it sounds like it is a very rigidly structured series of planned only activities. Is there any "free play" time between activities? I don't have crazed heathen children, but they will respectfully ask to do their own thing if they don't like an activity and I don't want to get "disruptive child" pages. Anyone out there had success with an independent child in the clubs - especially 4/6 year-old?