grumpy&princess
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2008
I have a 10yr old son who is bipolar and autistic who doesnt have the ability to wait for anything. we have been working with him for a few years to improve this slightly. Waiting longer than 10-15 minutes will cause a SEVERE and physical meltdown. One or two of these wont be bad but anymore than that will cause us to have to return to the resort for the rest of the day since he will not be able to calm down. If he has more than two days of this we might as well go home as he will not be able to go on. The more I read and the more I look into this the more I worry that my son wont be able to do this. I am concerned that I wont be able to confer my sons needs to a CM to get a GAC that will work for him. I have heard so many times from ppl he dont look that there is anything wrong with him or that I need to teach him better and be sterner. I have tried so many things to help my son to understand that you have to wait for many things in your life and that you cant just get what you want when you want it. We have tried so many different therapies to help him but nothing has worked. Sorry to ramble on and on I am just so worried that now is not the right time to go if he will be having to wait long periods of time to ride a ride. I dont wait to have to wait more years for him to be able to enjoy disney. I am just lost as to what to do for him. Anyone else have this problem with their kids? Anyone with any suggestions? We have done smaller parks like Hershey Park and Idlewild Park in PA and our local amusement park. We have tried all of these both with and without a disability pass. Needless to say I will never do any of these parks again without a pass as to it was horrible to see a 9yr old on the ground throwing himself all over the place and when I restrain him, him hitting and biting and scatching me. He is to big for me to control in a restraint hold he is just to strong. He will unattentionally hurt me, himself or anyone else around when he melts down. Will we actually be able to enjoy Disney or not? Thanks for your help.
Lisa
Lisa