sdoll
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- Jan 5, 2005
I have had an awesome(so I thoght) babyistter for the last 5 months. She is always flexible and my kids love her. But she did something today that has me completly freaked out to the point that I don't think I can continue using her.
Today she came and said I have a present for you. I looked and she had a zip lock bag with some pills in it. I said "what is that" She said it was some sort of drug (i can't remember the name) that she thought would help my DS3 sleep at night. ( My DS is at the point where he needs a nap but if he takes one he is up super late so we tend to skip a nap so that he goes to sleep ok and he doesn't keep his big brother up. TOTALLY NORMAL BEHAVIOR! There have been a few times that he falls asleep during the day is not ready for bed and bed time. Which can be annoying but understandable.
I responded that 1) I would never use a drug to get my 3 year old to sleep and that I would like her to take it home with her. I told her that we are not big meds people. Unless we need it. But we are the sort of people that flush old meds down the toilet and would never keep them for a later ailment.
I am so freaked out by this. Are you kidding me? It just makes me question what she would feel comfortable giving my kids in my absence.
I called my husband at work today to tell him what happened. He is going to talk to her when he gets home to try and figure out what would make her think that was ok and see if he can get a read on just what the heck is going through her brain. I am leaning toward there is no 2nd chance in these kind of situations. I need to know I can trust her. He is usually not so quick to jump the gun so we have agreed he would talk to her and then we would discuss it tonight. But What the heck was she thinking?
Today she came and said I have a present for you. I looked and she had a zip lock bag with some pills in it. I said "what is that" She said it was some sort of drug (i can't remember the name) that she thought would help my DS3 sleep at night. ( My DS is at the point where he needs a nap but if he takes one he is up super late so we tend to skip a nap so that he goes to sleep ok and he doesn't keep his big brother up. TOTALLY NORMAL BEHAVIOR! There have been a few times that he falls asleep during the day is not ready for bed and bed time. Which can be annoying but understandable.
I responded that 1) I would never use a drug to get my 3 year old to sleep and that I would like her to take it home with her. I told her that we are not big meds people. Unless we need it. But we are the sort of people that flush old meds down the toilet and would never keep them for a later ailment.
I am so freaked out by this. Are you kidding me? It just makes me question what she would feel comfortable giving my kids in my absence.
I called my husband at work today to tell him what happened. He is going to talk to her when he gets home to try and figure out what would make her think that was ok and see if he can get a read on just what the heck is going through her brain. I am leaning toward there is no 2nd chance in these kind of situations. I need to know I can trust her. He is usually not so quick to jump the gun so we have agreed he would talk to her and then we would discuss it tonight. But What the heck was she thinking?