sdoll
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2005
My son is almost 4 and will start kindergarten 1 year from September. Our school just moved the birthday cutoff date up to August 1st. My son's birthday is July 13th. He is so close to the cut off date that I wonder if I should wait an extra year to start him.
I know it is early to worry about this but what can I say I am a Mom you know what its like.
I have a few concerns- The first one has to do with maturity not so much now but when he is older. It can make such a huge difference. Another thing is that my son is tiny. He is in the 5th percentile in height. And thats after his growth spurt.
And I think this one is more about me. I really struggled in school. I over came it but my grades were not great. I did not understand basics and could not comprehend reading until about 7th grade. As a parent you remember that and pray that it does not happen to your child. I was lucky because I had good friends and never felt teased. But I knew my issues and that was hard enough. He is not behind currently and I have him in preschool but I feel as a parent it is my duty to make the right choice.
I know this is early so please don't think I am a freak. Also its not a seperation thing for me. Having my son in school would save me a ton but thats the least of my worries.
What would you do? My husband thinks I am crazy to consider waiting an extra year.
I know it is early to worry about this but what can I say I am a Mom you know what its like.
I have a few concerns- The first one has to do with maturity not so much now but when he is older. It can make such a huge difference. Another thing is that my son is tiny. He is in the 5th percentile in height. And thats after his growth spurt.
And I think this one is more about me. I really struggled in school. I over came it but my grades were not great. I did not understand basics and could not comprehend reading until about 7th grade. As a parent you remember that and pray that it does not happen to your child. I was lucky because I had good friends and never felt teased. But I knew my issues and that was hard enough. He is not behind currently and I have him in preschool but I feel as a parent it is my duty to make the right choice.
I know this is early so please don't think I am a freak. Also its not a seperation thing for me. Having my son in school would save me a ton but thats the least of my worries.
What would you do? My husband thinks I am crazy to consider waiting an extra year.