KiKi Mouse
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2007
I smell a rat.
There are men (and women) out there that troll the internet looking for nice girls to take advantage of.
Does this guy have a real job or does he just run businesses? Did you know what his finances were like when he moved in? Is he paying half the rent/mortgage and half the bills? Does he have a sob story (struggling business) and can't pay his share? Do you have any joint finances? If so severe them.
If this man truly loved you he would not be on dating sites on the internet. He may be a player or a con artist lining up his next "nice girl" to move in with.
DH and I met on a dating site and both of us deleted our profiles when we knew were the relationship was going.
Here's some advice for the future:
If you get serious to the point of moving in with a guy then everything financially should be on the table. 100% open and honest and discuss who is going to pay for what.
Get a cohabitation agreement. It's just like a pre-nup. I had one when DH moved in with me. I was divorced and could not go through another one financially. DH understood 100% and had no problem with it. It went in the filing cabinet never to be seen again.
There are men (and women) out there that troll the internet looking for nice girls to take advantage of.
Does this guy have a real job or does he just run businesses? Did you know what his finances were like when he moved in? Is he paying half the rent/mortgage and half the bills? Does he have a sob story (struggling business) and can't pay his share? Do you have any joint finances? If so severe them.
If this man truly loved you he would not be on dating sites on the internet. He may be a player or a con artist lining up his next "nice girl" to move in with.
DH and I met on a dating site and both of us deleted our profiles when we knew were the relationship was going.
Here's some advice for the future:
If you get serious to the point of moving in with a guy then everything financially should be on the table. 100% open and honest and discuss who is going to pay for what.
Get a cohabitation agreement. It's just like a pre-nup. I had one when DH moved in with me. I was divorced and could not go through another one financially. DH understood 100% and had no problem with it. It went in the filing cabinet never to be seen again.